A Nigerian woman based in the United Kingdom has sparked widespread online reactions after posting a highly emotional video narrating how her long-term relationship ended unexpectedly. In the viral clip, she tearfully recounted being dumped by her Nigerian boyfriend, who she claims left her for a Zimbabwean woman.
The woman, identified on TikTok as preciousonyegu1, shared the video on her page, where it quickly gained attention and triggered intense discussion among social media users.
Nigerian woman calls out Zimbabwean ladies
In the video, the visibly distraught woman expressed deep frustration and heartbreak, questioning what she described as an increasing competition between Zimbabwean women and Nigerian women over Nigerian men living abroad.
She lamented that she did not understand why a Zimbabwean woman would pursue a Nigerian man when, according to her, there were eligible men in her own country. Her emotional outburst appeared to stem from feelings of betrayal, insecurity, and disappointment over how her relationship ended.
Reason for her relationship crash
While fighting back tears, she revealed that her boyfriend ended their relationship after allegedly developing a preference for the Zimbabwean woman. According to her, he told her he was more attracted to the other woman’s physical features, a revelation that deeply affected her self-esteem.
The Nigerian woman added that the situation hurts even more because she feels time is no longer on her side, explaining that she is nearing menopause and had hoped to settle down soon. She said the breakup left her feeling anxious, abandoned, and emotionally drained.
She said …
“Zimbabwean ladies, what’s this competition between you and Nigerian ladies over own prosperity, our own men. Don’t you have men in your country? My boyfriend left me in the UK over a Zimbabwean lady just because I don’t have big nyash and front… I’m really frustrated right now cause I’m nearing menopause. Leave our men alone.”
The video has since drawn mixed reactions online, with some users sympathizing with her emotional pain, while others criticized her remarks as unfair and misplaced. The debate continues to trend, especially around beauty standards, cross-national relationships, and dating realities in the diaspora.
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