A social media post by a Nigerian lady has triggered intense debate and widespread reactions online after she publicly searched for a woman willing to become a third wife in a polygamous marriage arrangement.
The unusual request, which was shared on X, formerly known as Twitter, quickly caught the attention of thousands of users, sparking discussions around polygamy, marriage expectations, relocation, and modern relationship dynamics.
Many users expressed shock that such a sensitive and personal matter was openly advertised on a public platform, while others argued that consenting adults should be free to make their own marital choices.
Post That Sparked Reactions
In the now-viral post, the woman openly invited interested ladies to consider marrying her male friend as an additional wife, stating that the offer came with specific conditions and future plans.
She emphasized that the opportunity was serious and not a joke, encouraging users to help amplify the message so it could reach the right audience.
She wrote: “If you are open to be a 3rd wife. Please let me know. A good friend of mine is looking for a bride.
“The most important aspect. Be ready to move abroad. Kids after 2 years.
“He’s planning on moving to Saudi permanently from Uk. He’s 35years. He’s Yoruba. Kindly Rt our bride is on your TL.”
The post rapidly spread across timelines, with retweets, quote tweets, and screenshots circulating as users shared their thoughts, jokes, and criticisms.
Mixed Public Reactions Online
Social media users were sharply divided in their reactions, with opinions ranging from support to outright disbelief.
Some users defended the lady, arguing that polygamy is culturally and religiously acceptable in certain contexts, and that anyone willing to accept the arrangement should not be shamed.
Lekan commented: “When you see how many women who are willing to take this offer, you’d wonder who the ones crying all over the TL are. Ariwo lasan ni.”
Others questioned the reasoning behind seeking a third wife for a relatively young man, especially in an era where many people struggle with commitment and financial stability.
Tomiwa asked: “What’s a 35 year old doing with a third wife though.”
Some critics also raised concerns about power dynamics, relocation demands, and whether the arrangement truly benefits all parties involved.
Humour and Sarcasm Join the Debate
As with many viral posts, humour quickly became part of the conversation, with users turning the unusual request into jokes and memes.
Several users sarcastically congratulated the unknown future bride, while others jokingly volunteered for higher positions in the marriage hierarchy.
Blessing wrote: “Congratulations to the bride in advance. Retweeting so it can reach her.”
Cheneme added jokingly: “Pls tell me when he needs a 5th wife.”
The post continues to generate engagement, highlighting how conversations around marriage, tradition, and personal choice remain deeply polarizing on Nigerian social media.