A heartwarming interaction between a local man and a Fulani herdsman has gone viral on social media after the two reconciled following a tense first encounter. The initial incident occurred when the local man, spooked by the herdsman passing by his window at night, chased him away. The situation, which could have escalated, ended peacefully thanks to the man’s subsequent apology and effort to establish a friendly rapport.
“Don’t be angry. We’re friends”
In a video shared online, the local man approached the herdsman, speaking calmly and respectfully to ease the tension. He said:
“Welldone o. I saw you three days ago when you passed by my window at night when I chased you away. Don’t be angry please. I’m not a troublesome person. Don’t be angry. We’re friends o.”
The herdsman, who identified himself as Aliu from Kano, responded positively, noting that he understood the man’s reaction and did not take offense. He explained that he knew the local man was acting out of fear and unfamiliarity, which prevented the situation from escalating into conflict.
Social media reactions
The exchange quickly attracted attention on platforms like Twitter and X, with many Nigerians applauding the peaceful resolution and the local man’s courage in addressing the situation. Users noted that such interactions are vital in areas experiencing rising insecurity, where misunderstandings between locals and herdsmen can quickly spiral into violence.
@Omowunmi_omoleke commented: “But why them no fit do cow for their place? They have a lot of empty lands that they can use for whatever they want.”
@BignameIcon said: “Bad guy. Smart move before e turn am to suya.”
@BigTee_002 added: “He won’t have a peaceful conversation keh.”
@Tess_idowu noted: “How do they always manage to learn the languages of whatever community they enter? I mean they come in and after a few months they are conversing with you in your own language.”
Many social media users praised the encounter as an example of conflict resolution and mutual respect, encouraging others to adopt similar approaches when faced with tension or fear of the unknown. The viral clip serves as a reminder that empathy and dialogue can prevent misunderstandings from escalating into serious disputes, even in communities facing rising insecurity.
Watch the video below…
A Peace conversation between a man and a Fulani guy after he chased him on their first encounter. – Sodik pic.twitter.com/DIJql4j8ad
— 𝗕𝗔𝗥𝗡𝗬 𝗢 (@_BarnyO) November 25, 2025