Her remarks were made in a viral video that has since circulated widely, drawing both criticism and amusement from online users.
In the video, she boldly urged women to ensure that any man they intend to marry is already scared of them even before the relationship officially begins.
Lady urges women to be feared in relationships
According to the lady, adopting a soft, calm nature or operating solely in what she described as “feminine energy” often gives men room to take advantage of women.
She argued that fear is a powerful tool that keeps men in check and prevents disrespect or infidelity.
She claimed that when a man believes he is dating someone unpredictable or fierce, he will be more cautious with his actions.
“In a relationship or in marriage if you want to marry, you need to marry husband that is fearing you, like before you start a relationship, make sure the guy is scared of you, so that before they do anything they’ll remember, I’m dating a mad person, if i come back she go scatter house,” she said.
The lady went further to extend her argument beyond romantic relationships, stating that women should also be feared by their children.
According to her, fear brings respect and control in the home, and without it, authority is easily undermined.
She repeatedly described women as “dragons,” insisting that embracing such a persona is the only way for women to avoid being disrespected or mistreated in marriage.
Her comments quickly went viral, triggering a flood of reactions from social media users.
While some viewers laughed off her advice as extreme and comical, many others strongly disagreed, warning that such beliefs could promote toxic behaviour and ruin healthy relationships.
Social media reactions
@depanther77 commented: “I said it and I will say it again, women love simps so that they can control.”
@iam_sexitade commented: “dragon ke… she be Ladude’s daughter.”
@omolyaake_shabz commented: “Marry someone who understands and respects you. Forget about the dragon parts!!”
@Odogwu_Rico commented: “Dragon well done. Keep making a lot of ladies single mothers”
@Billions1430 commented: “Till you marry Zubby Michael or Liquid Metal.”
Watch the video below…
“You need to marry a husband who fears you, so before he does anything, he’ll remember he’s married to a dragon”
— TikTok influencer advises women who want to get married https://t.co/DUqClkzl4y pic.twitter.com/Og9HaH7FjI
— Vampz (@Hybrid_Ola) January 7, 2026