A Nigerian mother has set social media abuzz after making a bold declaration about the bride price for her daughter, sparking widespread debate about marriage customs and modern expectations. In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter) by @honest30bgfan, the woman stated that any man wishing to marry her daughter must pay $10,000 (approximately ₦14.7 million), explaining that the amount reflects the investments she has made in raising and preparing her daughter for adulthood and eventual marriage.
The mother emphasized her pride in the effort and resources she has dedicated to her daughter, insisting that a “cheap” offer would not do justice to her upbringing. In her words, she said: “I need just $10,000 for my daughter bride price before you can marry her, because I know what I spent to make her this beautiful.” Her statement was met with a mix of shock, amusement, and criticism from social media users across Nigeria and beyond.
Many online observers reacted strongly, with some laughing at the audacity of the demand, while others criticized the commodification of marriage and the reduction of a woman’s worth to monetary terms. Several users expressed concern that high bride prices might discourage men from marriage or create unrealistic expectations that prioritize money over love and mutual respect.
Reactions ranged from humorous to critical. One commentator remarked, “So marriage is now a business investment?” while another added, “This is why many men are scared of marriage these days.” Some users joked about the financial implications, saying, “With ₦14.7m, I’ll marry three wives and still have change.”
Despite the criticism, a few social media users defended the woman, suggesting that her statement was not meant purely as a financial demand but as an expression of pride in her daughter and acknowledgment of the effort it takes to raise a well-mannered and beautiful child. They argued that the comment reflects a cultural tradition where bride price symbolizes the value, respect, and care invested in the upbringing of a child rather than a mere transaction.
The viral video has reignited long-standing debates about the relevance of bride price in contemporary society, the commercialization of marriage, and the balance between cultural tradition and modern values. Observers note that such discussions highlight the tensions between generational expectations, financial realities, and evolving perceptions of marriage in Nigeria.
Whether taken seriously or in jest, the mother’s statement continues to fuel conversations online, with many expressing curiosity about how future grooms will respond and how bride price negotiations may evolve in the modern era. The debate underscores the complexities surrounding marriage, cultural practices, and societal attitudes toward family, respect, and financial obligations.
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— honest30bgfan (@honest30bgfan_) January 14, 2026