Social media personality Saida Boj has reacted strongly to the ongoing controversy involving popular skit maker and streamer Carter Efe and his baby mama, Emmanuella, as she openly criticised his recent comments about their relationship.
Saida Boj weighed in after Carter Efe publicly claimed that he has been single for over a year and appeared to distance himself from his former partner, a move that has continued to generate intense debate across social media platforms.
Reacting to the situation, Saida Boj suggested that a person’s true character often becomes visible only after they attain financial success and public recognition.
She explained that relationships formed during periods of hardship are frequently re-evaluated once fame, money, and attention come into the picture.
According to her, it is unfair and insensitive to suddenly describe a partner as a burden after she stood by someone during their most difficult moments, including financial struggles and pregnancy.
Saida Boj further implied that the shift in Carter Efe’s attitude may be connected to his rising profile, growing recognition, and increased attention, rather than genuine problems within the relationship.
She maintained that loyalty shown during hard times should not be forgotten simply because circumstances have changed.
Expressing her stance more directly, she said …
“One thing about broke men is that you’ll never know their real character until they’re exposed to wealth. This girl fell in love with you, got pregnant for you and tolerated you when you were broke and now that you’re beginning to get the recognition and attention you wanted, it’s now you know she’s a burden and she’s not a good person.”
Her comments quickly gained traction online, sparking further discussions about loyalty, accountability, and how success can sometimes alter people’s behaviour.
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“One thing about broke men is that you’ll never know their real character until they’re exposed to wealth. This girl fell in love with you, got pregnant for you and tolerated you when you were broke and now that you’re beginning to get the recognition and attention you wanted,… pic.twitter.com/4HbTF5E4hJ
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