A video capturing the interaction between popular music star Davido’s wife, Chioma Adeleke, popularly known as Chef Chi, and her billionaire father-in-law, Deji Adeleke, has gone viral on social media, igniting widespread discussions and reactions online.
The clip, which appears to have been taken during a family gathering, has left viewers divided over cultural expectations and the manner in which Chioma greeted her father-in-law.
Family Gathering Interaction
The video shows Davido and Chioma arriving at what seems to be a private family event. Chioma is seen approaching her father-in-law, exchanging pleasantries with a smile while standing, and then moving on to greet other family members present at the gathering.
Many viewers described the moment as heartwarming, noting the cordiality and mutual respect displayed between Chioma and Deji Adeleke despite the informal manner of greeting.
Culture Clash Sparks Debate
Despite the seemingly normal interaction, a section of netizens criticized Chioma for not kneeling or performing a more traditional gesture of respect. This criticism was rooted in cultural expectations prevalent in some Nigerian communities, where younger family members are traditionally expected to kneel before elders as a sign of respect.
However, defenders pointed out that Chioma, being of Igbo heritage, adhered to her cultural norms, where kneeling may not be a standard requirement to show respect, emphasizing that respect can be demonstrated in multiple ways without following another ethnic tradition.
Social Media Reactions
The discussion on social media generated mixed reactions. Some users argued that Chioma’s greeting was perfectly acceptable and culturally appropriate, while others insisted that more traditional gestures would have been better received. The debate highlighted the diversity of Nigerian cultural practices and expectations in family settings.
@olridwan reacted: “Can you imagine. If we tell our people not to marry an Ibo. They’ll think we are doing too much. Look at this one now.”
@yorubaideology commented: “That’s what happens when you marry Ibo girls. Can a mannerless woman raise well-mannered children? No. The kids will grow up and be like Gbadebo Chinedu who only identifies with Yoruba by name and not thoughts, ideology, character, language or anything whatsoever.”
@AJNEWERA_1 added: “Will kneeling down mean she’s a good wife or mother? If it were about kneeling down, she’d do it to everyone. Let me tell you, her good character even made the father-in-law embrace her warmly… make Ona calm na.”
@AccountingZest said: “Kneeling down is a Yoruba way of showing respect; in Igbo culture, we don’t do that. It’s that simple… Still doesn’t mean she’s not respectful!”
Video Sparks Nationwide Attention
The clip has been widely shared across platforms like Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok, attracting comments from fans and cultural commentators alike. Many noted that the exchange reflects the blending of cultures in modern Nigerian families and the need to respect individual traditions while maintaining family harmony.
While some continue to debate the appropriateness of Chioma’s greeting, others praise her for maintaining dignity, showing friendliness, and respecting her father-in-law in her own cultural way, demonstrating that respect is not bound by one single tradition.
Watch the viral clip below…
Why can’t Chioma kneel down Abeg? pic.twitter.com/6K1OcIjbKG
— Ayo (@mariolexxx) November 24, 2025